Hey Girlie!



I’m on a mission to help women SLOW DOWN. To stop trying to do it all on their own. And to see the true value a partner could bring to their life, if they would just let them.
Look, I used to be where you are. Swiping on the apps, going to random bars, asking friends if they knew anyone. Half the time I was dating sporadically & unenthusiastically the other half of the time I was dating obsessively if I thought someone had “potential.”‘
There was no middle ground.
Nothing about the process was enjoyable to me, because the stakes always felt so high.
I felt like I was always trying to prove that I was the right girl for whatever man was in front of me.
Listen Linda, I consider myself to be a fucking catch AND a feminist, yet I couldn’t shake these desperate and anxious feelings that came up whenever I was dating.
The whole thing felt bad, so I avoided it until I got gusts of random inspiration because “it had worked for a friend” & then I would stop abruptly after I encountered one too many douchebags.
But here’s the thing, if I was being honest with myself, I really wanted a relationship.
I wanted to find my soulmate. I wanted someone to travel the world with, build a life with, and have a deep, delicious connection with. I couldn’t figure out why that was so hard to find! I mean I exist don’t I? Where the fucks my match? And if THIS is what I had to deal with to find him, was it even worth it?
But I have to tell you something Girlie, I was going about finding my equal ALL WRONG.& I had no idea.
Because nobody teaches us this stuff. Nobody teaches us how to properly navigate complicated relationships, how to understand and process the inevitable emotional ups and downs that come with putting yourself out there or how to ACTUALLY be yourself when you feel like so much is on the line.
It wasn’t until I learned how to kick the bad, unconscious dating cycle I was in & become more emotionally resilient, that I started to meet & go on dates with men who ACTUALLY HAD THEIR SHIT TOGETHER.
Seriously, only about a month after I did the deep self work to become whole on my own, I met my husband. The man I genuinely believe is the love of my life. The man I would have told you just months early “didn’t exist”.
I want to help you see that it’s not the men, the dating apps, the pandemic, that are keeping you single. It’s you. (I know don’t kill me!!) I want you to understand this is actually the best news ever. Because you know what you don’t have control over? The men, the dating apps, the pandemic. But, you know what you do have control over?
(That’s right Girlie; yourself!!!)
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